I wonder when the average woman realizes that she owns her vagina.
That her virginity isn’t something for her parents to brag about.
Nor her pussy grip something for her lover to tell his friends about.
That her body count, whether it be 4 or 90, won’t really change the World.
And her “purity” is not determined by her genitalia nor can it be measured by a priest and guarantee passage into Heaven.
There was a point in time [I’m lying, it’s still ongoing] when I was constantly referred to as a whore. See I didn’t understand why though. I knew all the people I slept with, and I knew why I had, so I didn’t understand how an outside party could brand me such without sufficient information on why, how and when it happened.
While discussing this with a male friend, he asked me “Do you sleep with all the people you want to though?”, I responded in the affirmative, to which he said “Well then you’re good. Fuck ’em. You need to understand, most people are too afraid to do that cos they either think they’ll be rejected or they’re afraid of being judged. As long as you’re getting yours, they’ll stay mad. Accept it.”
It was food for thought. Are we considered whores for the sole reason that we feel free to do what we please with our vagina?
Are you a slut because you fucked the whole clique and actually enjoyed it?
Are you a skank because you cum, boo?
Now, men tend to put it this way “I can’t fuck with her cos everyone’s had a turn and I’m not about that.” But, why is it that even if a female is notorious for her sexual acts, she STILL continues to fuck whomever she wants? Including the self righteous men who want “Pure” women. Men naturally always wanna be conquerors and pioneers and shit..Is that why they want virgins? To be able to say “I broke her”? Then feel Big cos you think she’ll remember you forever and you would’ve changed her Life?
If no one had led you to believe an autonomous woman is undesirable, would you still deny yourself pleasure?
The arguments made are ridiculous really.
“Her pussy is probably loose..Besides what will my hommies say? Nah..What if that bitch has like..a disease or some shit? I ain’t bout it.”
Now..loose pussy. I personally don’t understand how this is still a thing since kegels exist. But if it still is..Well. *shrugs* But honey, have you yourself considered the fact that maybe you aren’t well endowed? I don’t know. Just maybe.
If one is still worried about what their friends will say when it comes to those they choose to lay with, maybe they shouldn’t be laying with anyone at all. Evidently mental maturity is lacking and you are unable to make decisions so, don’t. As for diseases. Why assume that she is reckless? Because in YOUR mind she ain’t shit, you believe SHE thinks she ain’t shit?Honey,no.
Women need to understand that a man who is ashamed of you doing as you please doesn’t really respect nor trust your ability to make your own decisions and trust yourself.
So why fuck [with] them though?
Your clitoris should be your best friend.
Sex shaming is unfortunately rife and people have no issue being closed minded, self righteous ad sometimes, just downright dumb.
To Quote Kid Cudi “In the end they’ll judge me anyway, so, whatever..”, So, to quote The Weeknd “Girl take pride in what you wanna do, even if that means a new man every night inside of you..”
Would you rather be sexually frustrated and sad because idiots judge you cos of what you do with YOUR body, or enjoying orgasms and comfortable with, proud of, the decisions you make regarding your Self?